I’m sure I’ve touched on this subject before, but it deserves to be repeated. Life is full of things that change us, whether the process was pleasant or not is really the only difference. Some of the biggest changes to our lives, and ourselves, normally come in the form of people. I have had a number of them in my life, some were neutral as to their effect on me. Others were positive, but most were not. Even in the moments when we realize that a person (or persons) will no longer be in our lives, whether because they left on their own, or we pushed them to the door. There is still a sense of loss, even as hatred for whats happened sometimes builds within us. It’s not always the loss of that person, but usually of what should have been in that relationship. Try to remember, that everyone and everything will leave its mark on us. How you choose to display that mark is your doing. So choose wisely, and be confident that no matter who comes and goes, we will be stronger for it, if we want to be.
About the author Chyina
I’m a Goth/Hippie who loves to try new things and dabbles in anything and everything that I find enjoyment in. That can include but is not limited to, cooking, art, digital design, jewellery making, photography, gardening, nature, animals and whatever else strikes my fancy. I’m an optimistic (occasionally) perfectionist (constantly), who can be very sarcastic (incessantly), but all in good humour. :)